The Christmas season is now squeezing in on all of us and as we go, from store to store, in search of that perfect gift for dad, or the last minute gift for "Aunt Harriet" because you had no idea she remembered you this year; it is easy to get irritated. The cashier took a few minutes longer to get the person in front of us checked out and now we are late, or perhaps we are running late and remember that we still need a gift for the party that we forgot. So we swing by the local stuffmart grab a gift, head to checkout only to discover that every checkout is littered with people. Or maybe, you have to make a trip back to a store to fix a problem that the store created in the first place. Suddenly, what should have been easy, becomes complicated like the first Christmas. We have two choices. We can let these minor things steal our joy of Christmas or "going with it" and refusing to let the little things crush our spirit. If we remember to stay flexible