"You can't do that!" "It's not safe!" As I read this comment, I must confess, I laughed. They were referring to allowing a child to have a monkey bar set up in a hallway of the house. When I got done laughing, I had to think about when it became wrong to allow children the joy of taking a risk. After all, life is filled with uncertainties. That's part of what makes life exciting. Fun. I work with fryers every day. They are dangerous! Trust me. Driving a car is risky. Do you have any idea how many lunatics there are with driver's licenses? I do. But no one stops driving. Realistically, I can't protect my children one hundred percent of the time. When I was growing up, I played outside, explored the woods, walked on beams in a barn all unsupervised. Guess what? I lived to tell about it. We had boundaries, like no playing in the road, tell people where you are going. But . . . We were allowed to climb trees, or cam