We just celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary. It seems like it was just yesterday that we were standing at an altar in a little country church before the minister and our friends and saying the centuries-old vow. to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part. I must confess, those words have seemed to echo in my mind this year, probably because it has been 30 years since we were married. There has been a river of memories like water under a bridge. So many things have happened. As I thought of the words of love that my husband and I spoke all those years ago, my first thought was, "How could I dare to speak them?" I guess I was young and invincible. I think that like most young people standing on the brink of marriage, what I heard was “To have and to hold, from this day forward” and I th...