Tomorrow my sweetie and I will be celebrating twenty- nine years of marriage. What an amazing journey! I have to confess that when we were first married I had some preconceived ideas of what love and marriage would be like. I thought love was having my spouse with me all the time, holding hands doing everything together, never having a disagreement. I thought my darling sweetheart would never let me down or hurt me and everything would be perfect for the rest of our life. Wow! Can you believe how incredibly naïve I was? After twenty-nine years what I realized is that no one could live up to the ideals that I had set because we live in an imperfect world and we are imperfect people. I know, you’re thinking, “It took you twenty-nine years to realize this?” Nah I realized it after the first year. I still smile how over the years God has changed my definition of love. Don’t get me wrong there is nothing wrong with holding hands, kissing, or hugging your spouse but